I was remembering today how 10 years ago, my mind was caught in a constant loop of trying to control everything around me. I had been conditioned to believe that if I could just manage the circumstances perfectly, everything would be ok.

One memory stands out: a trip to the Caribbean — literal paradise. A perfect pink house on the beach in Grand Cayman. Yet, instead of being present and enjoying the beauty, I found myself obsessively checking the weather forecast every few hours, consumed by the fear that it might rain. Who was that girl?!

Looking back, it wasn’t really about the weather. It was about the part of me that couldn’t accept things as they were — always needing to fix, control, or fight against what was. Happiness was something I was trying to get from the external world.

We resist, we complain, we judge — yet we experience more of the same. Instead, we drain our own energy and wonder why we’re so exhausted.

But what if peace and manifestation happens when we stop fighting reality?

Today, I want to share with you a gentle yet powerful practice that can transform your relationship with life : Acceptance & Allowing.

What is Acceptance?

It’s simply acknowledging what is - without resistance, judgement or blame. It doesn’t mean we have to approve of what is happening, but we see it as, it is arising in the infinite field of awareness.

When we stop saying, “It shouldn’t be like this,” we allow space for what is and ultimately peace within ourselves. And potentially a solution we hadn’t thought of to arise.

This doesn’t mean you are giving up or settling. It means you are choosing to be in a place of neutrality with how things are right now, knowing that from this place of observing what is, other potentials can arise.

I’ve come to realize that acceptance is a vital step before we can allow for solutions.

We often rush to fix because we want to escape discomfort as quickly as possible. But what if there’s value in allowing ourselves to simply be with the uncomfortable moment? To sit in the unknown — even if just for a little longer.

That space of acceptance — without seeking solutions — is where true clarity, solutions and healing begin.

Before trying to “fix” it, there’s power in pausing to accept and feel what’s here right now. So that then we can allow, what is to come next.

Because often, the discomfort itself holds an important message:
What new perspectives or lessons is this moment offering me?

When we give ourselves permission to be present with what is, we create space for deeper shifts — far beyond quick fixes.

A Course in Miracles teaching: The Gift of Acceptance

In A Course in Miracles, one of the central teachings is: “I can choose peace instead of this.”

I love this statement because of the word - CHOOSE. This simple but profound statement reminds us that choosing is always available.

Peace is available — not when our external world changes, but when our perception changes.

A Course in Miracles teaches that suffering comes from our attachment to how we think things should be.

When we let go of these judgments and accept things as they are, we shift from fear to neutrality to ultimately love. Acceptance becomes an act of peace & forgiveness — not just of others, but of ourselves and the world.

By choosing to see with acceptance rather than judgment, we align with Divine guidance. We are allowing what is to be. This is true allowing.

When we practice acceptance, we release the ego’s grip and allow miracles — shifts in perception — to occur. From this space potential material manifestations can flow with ease, because we are no longer blocking them with resistance.

Allowing is what happens next.

It’s giving life permission to unfold without force, control, or struggle.

By allowing, you align with ease, joy, and abundance — and life responds in unique ways.

Your struggle isn’t in your job, your relationship, or your bank account. Your struggle is in resisting what is.

If you hate your job, that resistance lowers your vibration. But if you choose to accept it for now, see the good in it, and align with gratitude, you shift your energy — and that opens the door for new opportunities to appear.

When you release judgment, you release the suffering of the mind.

Acceptance & Allowing are Powerful Tools of Manifestation

By letting go of resistance, you naturally align with the effortless being that you are. Where peace, abundance, and the joy you desire can arise effortlessly.

Manifestation isn’t about forcing your desires into reality — it’s about aligning your energy with what you want. The more we resist “what is,” the more we block the flow of abundance, opportunities, and joy.

Acceptance softens that resistance. When you make peace with your current circumstances, you shift out of lack, frustration, and control — and into a state of flow. Allowing takes it a step further, inviting life to surprise you with possibilities you couldn’t have planned yourself. Allowing life to show you the next steps.

It’s in this state of allowing, openness, peace, and non-resistance that manifestation naturally occurs.

From here, you become a magnet for new jobs, relationships, success, and all forms of abundance — not because you’re fighting for them, but because you’re energetically aligned with receiving them.

Remember: what you resist, persists. What you accept, transforms.

A gentle practice to experience more peace, clarity, and flow in your life:

Start by practicing acceptance & allowing today.

What would it feel like if I were to accept all things that are arising today? Can I allow all that is arising in this moment to just be, as it is?

Notice where you’re resisting reality — and gently choose to drop resistance. I sometimes like to visualize my hands dropping something - dropping that resistance. ie, the way of thinking / judgement. Start with the weather! It can be a good place to practice.

• Choose to find your breath and pause and be with what is.

• Choose to ask different questions - is there something I am being asked to see differently in this moment?

• Can I choose peace instead of this circumstance?

In this place of acceptance and neutrality, you allow what is in your highest good to come forward. Let it surprise and delight you.

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